Welcome! I’m mai.

I’m a writer, facilitator, & grief worker living in Albuquerque, New Mexico.

I work with groups, organizations, and individuals to process loss and express what’s in their heart, out into the world.

I work with people who are yearning to live and create in ways that heal themselves, their communities, and the earth.

Yet, they feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, ​and alone, often because they are carrying a lifetime of personal and collective loss, and generations of unprocessed pain.

Offerings for Groups & Individuals

  • Close-up of green ivy plants with white flowers blooming among the leaves.

    Grief Support

  • White flower with multiple yellow stamens growing amid green variegated leaves in a garden setting.

    Writing Consultation

  • A butterfly with brown and orange wings resting on a green leaf in a lush outdoor setting.

    Death Care & Planning

  • A small stream flowing through a green forest with tall pine trees and a large rocky cliff on one side under a clear blue sky.

    Grief Stewardship Training

  • A dirt path through a forest with tall trees showing autumn foliage, sunlight shining through the leaves, and a clear blue sky visible overhead.

    Climate Grief Workshops

  • Yellow wildflowers growing in a field with mountains in the background and a cloudy sky.

    Grief Circles & Group Support

If you want to transform​ ​loss into healing and liberation…

If you want to be in conscious relationship with life, death, and the earth... 


If you have a deep yearning to express yourself…

If you want to live a creative and liberated life…

I would be honored to support you.

  • mai has supported my grieving process in profound ways that i did not even know to imagine.

    — Client & 13 Names for Grief Participant

  • I highly recommend [mai] for anyone seeking to deepen in their writing and exploration of loss and healing.

    — 13 Names for Grief Participant

  • mai is such an inspiring and helpful mentor, teacher and writer. I recommend their guidance to anyone.

    — Writing Consultation Client

Photo Credit: Melodee Solomon (head shot), Brandon Forester & Leo Fitzpatrick (gallery photos)